24 Things I Learned in 24 Years

I’m officially 24! Every year, I have been writing these posts compiling lessons I’ve learned, and advice I’m actively trying to follow. (Trying. It’s a process lol.)

I honestly love to look back and read these lists as my birthday approaches each year. I love seeing what is still relevant to me and what things I’ve been focusing on throughout the year.

1. You can only control so much of the outside world.
2. Don’t be afraid to learn from others.
3. Appreciate what you have. At this moment. Not what you can have in the future.
4. You are exactly where you need to be in life.
5. Stop doubting yourself, you are more capable than you think.
6. You are more than enough.
7. Own up to your mistakes.
8. Learn to take criticism.
9. Don’t always take harsh words or actions to heart. Often, it is just not worth wasting your energy getting angry.
10. Do what makes you happy.
11. Your emotions are valid. Acknowledge them.
12. Appreciate those around you.
13. Be humble. Appreciate how far you come and those who helped you get there.
14. Being kind and supportive to others does not mean you should neglect yourself. And they should not expect or encourage you to either.
15. You can forgive someone without putting yourself in the same situation again.
16. Maintain your relationships. Put the appropriate amount of time and effort in them whether they are family, friends, or acquaintances.
17. Sometimes you really just need to let go.
18. Do not tie your self-worth to people or things.
19. Find people who are willing to speak up for you.
20. Many times things will not turn out as you expected. Sometimes it will be better. Sometimes it will be worse. Either way, make the most of it.
21. Stop being so hard on yourself.
22. Friendships require give and take. They should not be one-sided.
23. You can be happy for others without comparing yourself to them.
23. Stand by your beliefs.
24. This is only the beginning. You have so much more to experience and learn. Don’t stop growing.

Here is to another year of growth and lessons.

– Tatyana x

What lessons have you learned recently?